Sermon Series - 2012

Trinity United Methodist Church - Rev. Dr. David N. Wentz


Relationship Wars: Overcoming ‘Divide and Conquer.’

The enemy is not who you think!


Relationship Wars 1:  The Big Picture

January 8

January 15

January 22

January 29

February 5

We’re Under Attack!

Scripture lesson: Genesis 2:4-24


Key verse: Genesis 1:18 The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a companion who will help him.”

  •   God made us for himself
  •   God made us for each other
  •   Why are we so different? Gender differences
  •   The devil wants us isolated

The Enemy’s Strategy: Divide and Conquer 

Scripture lesson: Genesis 3:1-24


Key verse: Ephesians 6:12 We are not fighting against people made of flesh and blood, but against the evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against those mighty powers of darkness who rule this world, and against wicked spirits in the heavenly realms.

  •        Recognize the real enemy
  1.    Other people are not your real enemy
  2.    We humans are all in this together
  3.    The devil wants to hurt us as a way of hurting God
  •        The enemy’s strategy: divide and conquer
  1.    People need people
  2.    We need each other in different ways
  3.    Lions don’t attack until they cut one out of the herd
  •        Spiritual attack: a case study – Genesis 3
  1.    Doubt (verse 1)
  2.    Suspicion (2-5)
  3.    Greed (6a)
  4.    Peer pressure (6b)
  5.    Shame (7)
  6.    Fear of discovery (8-10)
  7.    Hiding and deception (8-10)
  8.    Blame-shifting (11-13)
  9.    Marked for future attacks (14-15)
  10.    Painful consequences (16-19)
  11.    Conflict (16b)
  12.    Loss of blessings (20-24)

·       Recognize when you are under attack, and call in reinforcements!



God’s Strategy: Love Each Other 

Scripture Lesson:  John 13:31-35


Key verse: John 13:34 I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other.

  •  Love is a commandment
  •  Show love
  •  Speak love
  •  Listen in love
  •  Receive love
  •  The greatest love

The Battlefields 

Scripture lesson: Ephesians 5:18-6:9


Key verse: Ephesians 5:21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

  • Marriage – submit to one another through love and respect
  • Family – submit to one another through honor and nurture
  • Church – submit to one another through humility and service
  • Work or school – submit to one another through work and integrity
  • Community – submit to one another through peace and justice

Fight Back!

Scripture lesson: Romans 12:1-21


Key verse: Romans 12:21 Don't let evil get the best of you, but conquer evil by doing good. 

  • Let God transform you (verses 1-2)
    • Give God your actions
    • Give God your thinking
  •  Do your job (3-8)
    • Discover your uniqueness
    • Play well with others
    • Do what fulfills you
  • Act the way you know you should (9-16)
    • Love and honor people
    • Work hard
    • Keep a good attitude
    • Help people out
    • Pray for everybody
    • Be a good friend
  • Conquer evil by doing good (17-21)
    • Two wrongs don’t make a right (but two [W]rights can make you fly!)
    • Be as peaceable as other folks will let you
    • Love ‘em all, and let God sort them out
    • Be nice to your enemies – it will drive them crazy!


Relationship Wars 2: Ambush!

Relationship Wars 3:The Love Chapter

Relationship Wars 4: The Fine Art of Living With People